I’m sorry, but there’s a difference between rape and regret. Chances are, the guy was too drunk to even know. If you’re going to make the choice to go and get so wasted that you can’t say no, with guys (who are probably there just to pick up chicks) who are equally as drunk, then that’s you’re fault. Don’t go saying that he raped you because you made a bad choice.
LAWD, THANK YOU. You know the risk is there if you get hammered with a bunch of horny jocks in the room. He probably said yes under the exact same state that he said yes. Just because you’re the one having things stuck into you doesn’t automatically make it rape. It just gives you a convenient out from any kind of blame for some unknown reason.
It’s nice to know I’m not alone here.
excuse me but does it say anywhere in this that HE was drunk too? no. just her. and no, having “things stuck into you” does not make it rape but it’s rape when she cannot consent. it’s possible she could have been too drunk to say no, but that doesn’t change anything. she couldn’t decide for herself to do it. that is rape. he may have been drunk too, sure, and that would change things. but without it saying that he was drunk as well, you should all shut the fuck up and stop assuming shit. not everyone gets drunk as hell at parties. and saying that she made the choice to go get drunk at a party and knew the risks is victim blaming. yes it was her choice to drink, but it wasn’t her choice to have sex and it wasn’t her choice to be hit on by guys. we also don’t know how drunk she was. this is saying that society says if you drink (among other things) then it’s your fault, she could have been just a little out of it but because of our rape culture, we would say she drank too much. and honestly who is going to sit there and contemplate whether or not there’s a possibility of being raped when you go out?
“women are not raped because they were not careful enough. they are raped because someone raped them.”
